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We Are Salem - February 3, 2021

We Are Salem - February 3, 2021

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Living in Winter

I acknowledge that I am like much of our society when I want to skip winter, unless it involves a pretty snow that is easily drivable in a day or two. It seems the Holiday Season is about bringing as much happiness and light into the world as we can, then we immediately turn to Valentine’s Day where love reigns supreme, and then we immediately skip to swimsuit season.

Unless we enjoy winter sports, we try our best to ignore the short, gray days of winter, and the sadness that often accompanies them. Sting released an album of winter music, “If on A Winter’s Night,” ten years ago, and he gave interviews at that time where he discussed the importance of diving into winter and embracing what it means spiritually. When we just try to survive winter—to skitter through in anticipation of bright, sunny days—then we miss an important aspect of life.

In the past couple decades, our society seems to have become more and more obsessed with being happy. The pursuit of happiness appears to take precedence over anything else in our lives. We do not see the value in things that do not make us happy. Many years ago, I met with my wise spiritual director, Susan, and I remember telling her I just wanted to be happy. She responded, “Perhaps wanting to be peaceful might be a better option. Happiness can be superficial and doesn’t really speak to your soul.”

True peace only comes when we face the gray days of winter. If we try to ignore those times in our lives, we will not truly know peace. As many of us are confronted with grief about the many losses in our lives, we know that ignoring or denying grief does not help us process it. Just like winter—we need to sit with it and honor it, so that our hearts and souls might move towards health and wholeness.

I invite you this winter to observe a full winter. Find times of quiet. Reflect on the purpose of your life. Do not fear the darkness, knowing that it will shed light on the easier days. Dive into winter—the cold, the lack of light, the isolation—and look into what your soul says to you and the gift that you are to the universe. We will appreciate the warmth more fully when it comes and be able to grasp the deep peace which truly does bring joy into our lives.

Rev. Amy Rio
Chaplain

Kristin Ring Fleer Graduate now at WFU for MBA
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Fleer Graduate Kristin Ring

What does a Martha H. Fleer Center for Adult Education student do when they complete degree requirements at the end of the fall term? They CELEBRATE! They also spend their NEW free time counting the days until Commencement!

Meet Fleer student [now an alumna] Kristin Ring. Kristin completed her Salem College degree requirements at the end of fall term. When she began this journey, it was her first experience in college. Kristin spent 16 years completing her Salem degree. Over the years she experienced terms when she needed to “step out” and when life allowed her to, she returned to enroll the following term.

During a few of the semesters away from Salem she enrolled at a Community College to supplement her Salem degree. In the end she completed two-thirds of her degree at Salem College and completed a Bachelor of science, business administration.

She began her journey in 2004 as a part-time Fleer student taking two courses, and throughout the years each semester she enrolled in only one or two courses. Toward the end she enrolled full time to knock it out and made the Dean’s List! This 16-year accomplishment was achieved while working full time, being a single parent, and running her home.

Kristin is already back in the classroom. She was accepted and is currently enrolled in an MBA program at Wake Forest University.

To the Class of 2021 [and to Kristin for her recent degree completion] CHEERS!

Betty Telford
Dean of the Martha H. Fleer Center for Adult Education

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The Bluebird of Happiness?

Two new studies have recently been released that tell us what many people find surprising, but bird lovers have long known intuitively:  birds make us happier.  These studies, conducted by large, well-respected research institutions, find that exposure to nature (and more specifically exposure to birds) is connected to increased well-being in humans.

Perhaps this is because birds remind us that beauty and order exist outside the confines of our small lives.  Or perhaps, as we observe them, we might wonder what it must be like to fly and then wonder too what amazing talent we might possess, that simply because it comes to us naturally, we might be taking for granted, as birds take for granted their ability to fly.  We might marvel at the way birds thrive no matter the season or the weather and wonder if we might adapt in similar ways, perhaps by hanging with our flock and working together in the way that birds so often do.  And let’s not forget birdsong.  Listening to birds sing, in their beautiful and completely unselfconscious way, might remind us to keep striving to find our own voices and be our own unique selves, never mind who is watching or listening.

I am blessed (and cursed) to live in a 100-year-old house, that although beleaguered by a myriad of maintenance issues, is redeemed by being adjacent to equally aged trees and all the birds and wildlife that go along with that.  If you don’t have a yard with old trees and birds, take yourself to a nearby park or trail or roadside meadow and sit for a bit with the birds.  Better yet, if you do have a yard, add a simple bird feeder, and watch what happens.  You may find yourself smiling more often.

Meanwhile, don’t hesitate to contact Counseling Services if you need us. You are why we’re here.

Gaither Terrell
Counselor

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Salem Academy & College Staff Share Stories of Inspiration for NGWSD

February 3, 2021, marks the 35th annual National Girls & Women in Sports Day (NGWSD). The day is earmarked to inspire girls and women to play and be active and realize their full power. This year, as the COVID-19 pandemic continues, the importance of staying mentally and physically healthy during challenging times has been heightened now more than ever!

Seven members of the Salem Academy & College staff reflected on the ways that they were drawn to sports and the impact that it made on their life personally and professionally. They are: Erika Bonadio / Faculty Athletic Representative, Vavina Lapham / Salem College Assistant Swimming Coach, Octavia Saunders / Salem College Head Soccer Coach, Bouaketh Chanthavisouk / Salem College Head Volleyball Coach, Quntashea Lewis / Salem College Head Basketball Coach, Kierston Garner / Head Softball Coach, and Felicia Penn / Salem Academy & College Director of Student Activities.

Read their thoughts and reflections.

Jon Cole
Sports Communications & Marketing Director

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Submit Your Poems

As mentioned in last week’s We Are Salem, if you would like to submit a poem, the deadline is this Friday, February 5. Submit your poem to marketing@salem.edu with the subject line We Are Salem Poem Submission. Please include your full name and class year.

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